I love writing. I love the process. I love the journey you are taken on in a good story. There are few things so satisfying as a reader than to be engrossed in a story, only to encounter a moment halfway through where the plot takes a totally unexpected turn and shapes the entire ending in a way no one would have seen coming.
Life basically works out the same way. We start life with a clean slate, and every experience is advancing the storyline. Every setback you encounter is simply an unforeseen plot turn. Until the pages come to an end, the storyline isn't set. You never know when the next page will uncover a grand twist that throws all of your expectations out the window and takes the story in a direction you could have never seen coming.
When life hands you a grand setback, when things seem to go horribly awry, when you are tempted to feel like life is over, turn the page. Keep reading. Until the grand storyline of your life has come to an end, you never know what the next page could reveal that could totally alter the storyline of your life.
If you don't keep reading, you'll never know where the storyline can go. If you give up on the story halfway through, you will never see the happy ending. It's all up to you.
Life happens, things will go completely opposite how you envisioned. You have to make a decision how to respond. Whether you react like it's the end of the book, or a revision to the writing, will determine how the next chapter unfolds. The moment you choose to keep moving forward, to keep turning the page, is the moment you decide to remain stuck in that chapter. You remain in that same place until you decide to turn the page.
No one else controls the outcome of your life. No one else can turn the page for you. You have to embrace the future, including the uncertainty it brings, and choose to advance. Or, you can stay stuck in the conflict or adversity of the past.
The ending of your story is up to you.
P.S. Don Miller writes a great book about living a good story-
A Million Miles in a Thousand Years. Highly recommend you read it.