I know this about myself. I am learning how to respond to those things better. Lately I've noticed a lot of people who don't seem to handle this well, so let me share a simple thought that could have saved me a lot of trouble if I'd done it a little more often. Just shut up.
If you don't agree with a particular ministry, don't follow them. There is no excuse or justification for sarcastic mockery of their ministry. They aren't your servant, they don't answer to you, and frankly your opinion isn't going to change anything, so quit wasting your breath.
If something in your church isn't cleaned to your satisfaction, grab a rag and fix it, or stop complaining. If there's an area of ministry that's lacking, volunteer to help in that area or quit whining. People that are playing an active role find they have a lot less time to worry about what doesn't matter.
If you're finances are a mess, start tithing & get a budget, or live in your mess. If you won't even trust God enough to tithe, then you are a God-robber and shouldn't be shocked by the outcome.
If you're overweight, watch what you eat and go to the gym and quit blaming it on hormones, genetics, or your metabolism. If you don't, quit sobbing about it, you made the choice.
If it isn't important enough to motivate action on your part, it isn't important enough to talk about. Your mouth doesn't show what's important to you, your time and checkbook do.
Do something or shut up. Whining just annoys everyone. Be the solution instead of pointing out problems.
You'll be happier, your life will be better, and people will like you more.
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